There are many ways to respond to such conflicts, one not inherently better than the other. What is important is that we prayerfully come to a decision on how we want to proceed—not just publicly but in our hearts.
Here’s my current answer to difficult situations. I love all the people involved; I don’t know the details; I don’t want to count on hear-say and second, third or forth had information; we all have logs in our eyes; we all need humility; God loves us all; God shows no partiality. God is still speaking,…
I have chosen to direct my thoughts, prayers and actions toward all the good that we have and can put forth for God’s kingdom on earth.